Holiday Season!
- Shesdoinganewthing
- Dec 19, 2024
- 2 min read
Updated: Dec 24, 2024
Hey friends!
As we come into the Christmas season, while some may be celebrating others will find themselves feeling alone, sad, and heavy. I am here to tell you that it is quite normal to allow those feelings to take place. Be gentle on yourself and give yourself some grace. I want you to know that you are not alone. Surround yourself with those close friends and family members where you can be yourself!
Also, don’t feel obligated to be in situations that make you feel uncomfortable. Sometimes it's okay to be in our feelings if we can recognize that what happened has happened and it's out of our control and embrace a spirit of gratitude and healing. Let me share a little about my feelings during this time. Even though, I appear to have it all together like being a mother, wife, and newly g-ma. I find these seasons to be lonely. My husband and I have lost significantly close relatives. I lost my mom and stepdad who raised me. He lost his father and grandmother and numerous close relatives. We are both in our forties and it's hard to grasp that much loss in such a short period.
Even though we are both surrounded by love we still feel the sadness of the loved one’s loss. What helps us to get through these times is remembering all the countless blessings. Like my health, friends, family, and coworkers, and not to mention this community! Let us all reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how Jesus came as a baby to give us Hope, Love, Peace, and Eternity! Have a blessed and wonderful Christmas! Be blessed!
For unto us, a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder, And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Might God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Isaiah 9:6 (NKJV)
Love,
Tammy

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